Soul Mates – They’re Here There and Everywhere!

I was drinking my morning smoothie and wondered what would I write about next and two words were given to me “Soul Mates”.

Everyone is one, has one, and knows at least one; they’re everywhere.  Soul mates come in all different shapes, colours, sizes, ages, cultures, occupations and relationships.  They could be your children, your boss, your in-laws, your out-laws, your teacher, your mother, your lover, your neighbour and often times the most challenging of soul mates are the ones that showed you the most prevalent life lessons.

Soul mates help us grow; they bring out of us what needs to be healed and are at a similar vibrational frequency.  They are usually the ones closest to us at any given time in our life.  They bring us to an awareness that uncovers levels of ourselves (the good, the bad and the not so good) that we never knew existed.

When one soul mate leaves your life or your space, you can count on it that another one will come in very soon afterwards.  Also, it is not unusual to have more than one soul mate in your life as we all come forth into the physical wanting to experience as much as possible.  Knowing that we are Source energy in physical form, knowing that we are infinite, kind of gives us the proverbial heads up that soul mates are who we are.  We are all earth travellers/soul mates, heading home and helping each other learn, grow and love along the way.

Soul mate energy and perception has gotten a lot of attention in love stories, movies, and cultural beliefs.  Frequently soul mate energy has been confused with twin-flame energy (I will explain this in another posting) and often times, this belief was quite “valentine-ish”, leaving people to think that a soul mate would make everything better for them.  Well, yes, in that aspect they do make everything better, just maybe not quite what you had in mind!

When the novelty of the “valentine-ish” relationship dissolves and you are now into the nitty-gritty times, this is when soul mates really get down to work!  This is when the love evolution really gets moving and the transformation process sets in.  Soul mate relationships assist you in conveying love by performing for the other how you would like to be treated – with Love and in Love.

Some people will say “Hey, wait a minute!  So-and-So was a real turd.”  That’s okay; you still showed So-and-So how you wished to be treated and soon replaced So-and-So with another soul mate to continue the cycle of growth, awareness and expansion into Love.  Sometimes the soul mate lesson was to learn when to let go, learn to for-give, so that you could learn to for-get … another soul mate!

Remember, when we go back to our soul home, we will be welcomed by all souls, all of them, all together, all in loving awareness and all Love.

Leaving you with peace, love, understanding, awareness and wisdom (and of course, big hugs and butterfly kisses).

“A soul mate is an ongoing connection with another individual that the soul picks up again in various times and places over lifetimes. We are attracted to another person at a soul level not because that person is our unique complement, but because by being with that individual, we are somehow provided with an impetus to become whole ourselves.”Edgar Cayce

“Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment, are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment. There is a hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution.”– Deepak Chopra

“A soul mate is the one person whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soul, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, of awakening.”–  Kenny Loggins

“A soul mate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who were pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise.” – Richard Bach

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Expanding to The Higher Level of Love

I am often asked “why a soul would choose to experience sorrow, pain or suffering?”

All of us here in the human experience, be it infants, children, teenagers or adults, have been given the opportunity of teaching each other how to love.

During our life between lives (pre-physical memories), we choose to come into this physical existence to live the human experience and help each other rise to the higher level of compassion and love.  We ask to come here (this earth realm experience), we volunteer to come here, and we are born with pure positive energy (love), as that is where we just came from.  Our choice and our desire to learn and grow and experience, champions the soul to be born into the physical realm.

Some souls choose to be born for a short period of time and die as a baby or child.  The purpose for this is to teach others important lessons.  To love a child and understand patience, love, acceptance and understanding regardless of the situations and/or circumstances.

Souls who choose to be born cerebrally challenged have chosen to retain more than a normal amount of life between lives and who know much more than they are able to express.  This is an experience for greater compassion for everyone, as there is existent the understanding of significant soul growth.  It stretches our own humanity and this, in and of itself, is an important lesson.

It is not unusual for those people who choose to be born into a life of extreme suffering through handicaps, diseases, abuse, illnesses, hardships, accidents, etc., that they have chosen the opportunity to attain greater soul growth in a single life time than most people.

There is also the awareness that such people/souls are highly evolved and through their experience, that one chooses to observe, is a circumstance for soul growth.  It is not unheard of for one to take on profound suffering in order that another reaches profound enlightenment.

Unconditionally, we all evolve into a greater expression of love and understanding through human growth.  Give consideration to making an effort in recognizing that your true self is soul-essence and your soul-essence is one with Source.

Leaving you with peace, love, understanding, awareness and wisdom (and of course, big hugs and butterfly kisses).

“A soul without a high aim is like a ship without a rudder.”  Eileen Caddy

“It’s life, Captain, but not life as we know it.”  Commander Spock

“I existed from all eternity and, behold, I am here; and I shall exist till the end of time, for my being has no end.”  – Kahlil Gibran

“When you interact with another, an illusion is part of this dynamic.  This illusion allows each soul to perceive what it needs to understand in order to heal.”  – Gary Zukav

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Universal Law of Free Will & Choice

We all possess the attributes of free will and choice. This is inherent to each beautiful being on this planet. We are born with it and often times, through a great deal of conditioning from outside of us, we believe that we do not have choice.

The other day, I met with a gentleman who has magnificent gifts, yet was living in fear of not being accepted if he chose to use them. He is a wonderful healer and believes that his family would dis-own him, mock and ridicule him, if he chose to pursue his path of this gifted work. To add to his despair, he also questioned whether Source was angry with him for not opening and utilizing his gifts.

I shared with him that no matter what our circumstances, we have the power to choose our direction. We also choose to be under the influence of others or choose to be an example for others, and, what others think is their business, and only impedes upon our journey if we choose and allow it to. Ultimately we have the power of free will to honour our self, discover our gifts, and continue to be of service to others in our own unique way, one day at a time.

We all have free will, the power of choice, and our willingness to understand and accept this empowers us to choose who, what, where, when and how our life will be. The obligations and commitments created by these choices can be seen as opportunities for healing, growth and evolvement – this choice creates miracles of transformation.

Most of all, we need to remember that we could never anger or disappoint Source, as Source adores us, and, we are Source energy in physical form!!

May the Source be with you – smile!

Leaving you with peace, love, understanding, awareness and wisdom (and of course, big hugs and butterfly kisses).

“If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.” – Neil Peart

“In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our responsibility.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

“I have noticed even people who claim everything is predestined, and that we can do nothing to change it, look before they cross the road.” – Stephen Hawking

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Celebrate!! Living The Dream

Welcome to my blog…

Dreams do come true and this website and blog is something that I have dreamed of for quite some time. It was a dream that kept recurring, kept reminding me that it was waiting to be lived. I dreamed of being in association with an outstanding web designer, an ingenious photographer, and assistance with everything in all ways imaginable. I didn’t know who these people would be, or how I would meet them, so I trusted in the dream that the details would be revealed, and, each detail was, and I am truly grateful.

When we trust in our dreams, and start living our dreams in our heart (even if they haven’t completely manifested yet), our dreams do come true. When I say live your dream in your heart, I mean think, feel, walk, talk and act as if your dream is already happening.

I never gave up my dream of having a magnificent website with a blog to share my musings with others. Before the project was even physically started, I was blogging in my mind, and then into journals and then I started blogging into blank documents and saving them. I told myself that I would need them, to have them ready to post!

We are powerful co-creators and we co-create with Source energy. When we focus our attention on be-ing in the dream, our dream starts to manifest in a palpable way. Source always responds to our feeling-thoughts, and whatever we are feeling-thinking, Source will bring us more of it.

The best part about dreams is that we are the director, the main character of our desires, and there is no expiry date. If you can dream it, you can co-create it. Remember, energy follows thought!

Leaving you with peace, love, understanding, awareness and wisdom (and of course, big hugs and butterfly kisses).

“If you don’t have a dream, how can you have a dream come true?”
– Jiminy Cricket

“Dreams are today’s answers to tomorrow’s questions.” – Edgar Cayce

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined.” – Henry David Thoreau

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